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True love and conflict don't go together well. Conflict is a sign that true love may be disappearing. It really pays off to learn to reduce conflict in a relationship.

To start with, understand that you can't end all conflict. Some conflict is to be expected and is healthy in every relationship. You are both two different adults with different views, opinions and needs. Learning to disagree in a healthy way is worth spending time on. Shows like Oprah and books can help you learn this.

However, is there a way to stop most conflict before it ever starts? Would it help you to keep true love alive if you reduced the conflict in your relationship by over 50%?

There is a way to stop conflict that is powerful, effective, and you dont need to take a class on conflict to do it. Even better, you can put it to use in your relationship to minimize conflict starting just minutes after you finish this article. Its that simple and powerful.

A great way to cut conflict by over 50% in your relationship is PLAY. Play is the way to kill most conflict before it starts. Research has actually been done on this showing a direct correlation: the more play, the less conflict!

Remember that when you first got together you played A LOT with your lover. Dinner, dancing, movies, sex, good times were the norm. In the beginning we play tons and there is almost no fighting.

But then time passes and the honeymoon phase of our relationship wears off. We have jobs and responsibilities and burdens and kids. Over time the play can begin to disappear from our relationship. And then the fighting and conflict will begin to increase.

So play more with your mate and watch how it reduces conflict between you. Have at least one date night a week as a basic rule. One evening devoted to mutual play and pleasure. And see for yourself if you don't feel more true love and have less conflict.